One of the most difficult things to endure is being caught in an emotional affair with a married person. For a woman being involved with a married man is especially hurtful.
By nature women are loving, nurturing and trusting. When you enter an emotional affair with a married man he knows exactly which buttons to push to get you to do what he wants you to do. Whatever control you think you have in the relationship does not exist. Of course, this is not fair to you and it's reason enough for you to end the affair.
If you find yourself in an emotional affair with a married man who says you are ideal for him and he can't live without you, ask yourself why you are the mistress and not the wife. The answer is simple: he is not willing to leave his wife for you and has no intention of ever doing so. He will try to string you along as far as he can to enjoy the attention and sex (if you are already sleeping with him) but moment you present him with an ultimatum, he will chose his wife over you.
No matter how many promises he makes about the blissful future that awaits you together, understand that it won't happen because if he was sincere about it, he would have already left his wife instead of stalling for time over and over again and giving you excuse after excuse to make you wait longer for something that he will never do.
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